Personal Development and Success Strategies
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| Title : Frequently Asked Questions about Success Author : Mac Saarman Date : 2010-03-31 14:52:36 No. : 1 |
 | Success run too fast, not only the accomplishment but even the idea itself.
Overwhelmed by the immensity of success, some prefer to abandon before. We fear not only that we won't be able to achieve an impressive success, but that will not be able to get around him. We learned to idolize the success as a star that is always on a red carpet, into the limelight, but not always the success is so violent, the impressive to public and ... commercial.
Eventually, this concept quite spent in the mythology of everyday life is not so inaccessible as it seem. Especially since every successful person means to achieve different objectives.
In the next rows have I have tried to sketch a personal definition of success. What is the success for me? Here are the most important items on the list.
When you manage to make someone smile, is a success.
When someone uses my suggestions and advice, is a success.
When I can enjoy the loved ones, I feel successful.
When a person is happy for one gesture of mine that made a difference, I consider myself a successful person.
When I discovered or learned something, it's still a success.
When bedtime I can think of something good during the day, is again a success.
When I succeed to do what I proposed for a limited time - even the little nothings of life everyday, tick on the list a success. Every journey begins with the first steps, right?
When I give up certain things that I proposed but which have lost value and significance, I take it also as a success.
Perhaps the most important success for me is when I confront my darkness, addictions, fears, sorrows. I do not feel any greater victory than when I win the battles with myself.
I think none of them sounds like one of the established definitions of success. Maybe some seem modest and idealistic, unnecessary or even silly. Where's the money, luxury, brightness and other attributes of material success? Like I said, we all have an understanding of our own success. These are things that I care and provide me positive energy.
As conclusion, I think it would be a real win for you, after you spent time reading these lines, to look and search your own definition for success. Then you are already on the road to do it.
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